IF you tell person A something negative about themselves
DOES that give you automatic permission to tell person B, C, D, etc the same thing about person A???
AND then say to person A, well it's nothing I haven't said to your face!!
Proverbs 16:28 "A perverse man stirs up dissension, and a gossip separates close friends."
Proverbs 18:7 "A fool's mouth is his undoing, and his lips are a snare to his soul."
Proverbs 20:19 "A gossip betrays a confidence; so avoid a man who talks too much."